What themes does Rupi Kaur explore in milk and honey?

In her debut poetry collection milk and honey, Rupi Kaur explores themes of abuse and trauma, survival, healing, sex, love, heartbreak, and gender dynamics. All of these themes can be found throughout milk and honey, but the four sections into which the book is divided each focuses mainly on one or two themes in particular. The first section, “The Hurting,” focuses on the female speaker’s history as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. In the second section, “The Loving,” Kaur weaves in themes of love and sex as the speaker recounts her first major romantic relationship as an adult. The third and longest section, “The Breaking,” involves the theme of heartbreak, as the speaker describes how her relationship with the man introduced in “The Loving” comes to an end. Later in this section Kaur focuses more on the theme of gender, as the narrator begins to speak out against sexism and to decide for herself what being a woman means rather than to accept the gender roles that have been defined for her by men. The theme of healing is perhaps the most significant in the collection and forms the focus of the last section, appropriately titled “The Healing.” The poems in this final chapter reflect the speaker’s healing process, newfound empowerment, and ability to unlearn the harmful lessons she learned about love, sex, and femininity in the past.